Wednesday, May 14, 2008

BOOKS: The Israelis by Donna Rosenthal

The Israelis: Ordinary People in an Extraordinary LandThe Israelis: Ordinary People in an Extraordinary Land by Donna Rosenthal

My rating: 3 of 5 stars





This was a great book that gives an overview of different types of Israelis.



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BOOKS: How To Cure A Fanatic by Amos Oz

How to Cure a FanaticHow to Cure a Fanatic by Amos Oz

My rating: 3 of 5 stars






This small book had some great thoughts in it. I liked the descriptions of the fanaticism in both Judaism and Islam. I also liked the advice for resolving the Israeli/Palestinian problem (involving a two-state solution).

He gave a good description of the complexity of the issue and the importance of painful compromises on both sides. I really liked his description of the land of Israel as a house with two families fighting over ownership and that a solution would be painful and complex (similar to a divorce).

He wrote that learning how to have a sense of humor and to be able to imagine the other were important preparations for compromise. He also recommended using literature to learn how to imagine the other's situation. That advice would probably apply in all sorts of life-situations. Anyway, it was an interesting little book.

THINGS I LIKED:
1. The description of the complexity of the issue
2. The section on Jewish and Islamic fanaticism

MAIN IDEAS:
1. The need for a two-state solution
2. The importance of painful compromises for both sides
3. Important preparations for compromise include having a sense of humor and having the ability to imagine "the other".
4. Literature can be used to learn how to imagine the other's situation.

Favorite Quotes:

"The essence of fanaticism lies in the desire to force other people to change."

"And if you promise to take what I'm about to say with a big pinch of salt, I think I have invented the remedy for fanaticism. A sense of humor is a great cure. I have never once in my life seen a fanatic with a sense of humor, nor have I ever seen a person with a sense of humor become a fanatic, unless he or she has lost that sense of humor. Fanatics are often sarcastic. Some of them have a very pointed sense of sarcasm, but no humor. Humor contains the ability to laugh at ourselves. Humor is relativism, humor is the ability to see yourself as others see you, humor is the capacity to realize that no matter how righteous you are and how terribly wronged you have been, there is a certain side to life that is always a bit funny."



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Friday, March 14, 2008

BOOKS: The Blessing of a Skinned Knee by Wendy Mogel

The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant ChildrenThe Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children by Wendy Mogel

My rating: 4 of 5 stars



What an interesting book! I wish I would have read this when my children were younger. I love its moderate approach to raising children. However, my favorite quotes were about Jewish living in general.



Quotes:

pg. 34 "The three cornerstone principles of Jewish living are moderation, celebration, and sanctification. Through these principles we can achieve a balanced life, no matter what culture we happen to inhabit. The Jewish way is to continually study, learn, question, and teach these principles."
pg. 34 "The principle of moderation teaches us to do two seemingly incompatible things at once: to passionately embrace the material world that God has created.........while exercising self-discipline."
pg. 34 "We are obliged to embrace God's gifts moderately but enthusiastically; in other words, we are obliged to give thanks and to party."
pg. 38 "What's the most important moment in Jewish history? The giving of the Torah on Mt. Sinai? The parting of the Red Sea? No. Right now. This is the most important moment in Jewish history.
pg.59 "Jewish wisdom teaches us not to hold ourselves apart from the community but to use it for support and learning."



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